by Meghan Macgeorge
Though January starts the calendar year, I have always related more to the academic year for a time of a new beginning. However, as the shift from summer to fall and back to school brings renewal, it also often brings stress and exhaustion. The transition from leisurely days to structured routines can be overwhelming. Whether you’re a student preparing for new academic challenges, a parent juggling multiple responsibilities, or a superhuman who happens to be both, it’s important to acknowledge and address these feelings to ensure a smoother start to the school year. As a mental health therapist, I’d like to offer some strategies to help both students and parents manage this time more easily.
- Acknowledge Your Feelings: Anxiety about new classes, teachers, or social dynamics is normal. Recognizing and accepting these feelings is the first step toward managing them. Talking about your concerns with a trusted friend, family member, or therapist can help you feel less alone.
- Establish a Routine: Consistent routines can ease the transition back to school. Start by gradually adjusting your sleep schedule and daily activities a week or two before school begins. This helps your body and mind adapt to the new demands.
- Set Realistic Goals: Break your academic and personal goals into smaller, manageable tasks. This approach helps prevent feeling overwhelmed and provides a clear roadmap for success. Celebrate small victories along the way to maintain motivation. Who doesn’t love crossing something off their to-do list?!
- Practice Self-Care: Prioritize activities that help you relax and recharge. Whether it’s reading, exercising, or spending time with friends, make sure you allocate time for yourself amidst your responsibilities (I promise, if you step away from writing that 10-page paper to do something fun, you will come back refreshed and more productive!)
- Communicate Openly: Keep the lines of communication open with your children, spouse, friends, housemates, etc., about worries and expectations for the new school year. Supportive conversations can reduce anxiety and help everyone receive the assistance they may need. For me, receiving a home-cooked meal during finals week made all the difference.
- Encourage Organization: A well-organized environment can significantly reduce stress and increase productivity. I am a big advocate of planners! Many find it helpful to see their days and weeks laid out. It also helps you plan ahead for those more stressful days when you may need assistance from others.
- Manage Expectations: Setting realistic expectations for yourself and/or your child is important. Recognize that facing challenges is okay and that perfection is not the goal. Focus on effort and progress rather than unattainable standards (As a perfectionist, this took years to master).
- Seek Support: Don’t hesitate to reach out for professional help if stress becomes overwhelming. Mental health professionals can effectively offer strategies and support to navigate these challenging times.
- Build a Support Network: Connect with other families or members of your cohort, join support groups, or engage in community activities. A strong support network provides emotional backing and practical advice from those who understand what you’re going through.
With patience, preparation, and support, you can turn this time of renewal into an opportunity for growth and positive change.


